Q1:
A girl, very passionate about dancing, wants to dance in DJ being conducted in her college. Does she need to take permission from her parents??
Q2:
A boy wants only his mother, sister and his wife to sit back on his bike. Do u think it is sensible??
Q3:
A boy, who has many friends who are girls, but not ready to accept his girl friend to have male friends. How far is it fair??
Monday, December 19, 2005
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wanna add ur list, can i??
A gal, stop talking with her best friends, coz she is angry with someone else. how sensible her behavior is????
I agree. It's not sensible at all. I am trying to change.
That's for only short period, u can adjust. After all, u are my friends. Aren't u?
ofcourse v do.what i want to say is, even the others have thier own xplanation.
Ans1:the gal luv her parents and want to intimate them whatever she do.
Ans3: the boy out of possesiveness doesnt want her gf to have any boy as friend.
sometimes even v feel jealous and possessive. only the degree of feeling is different.this is a justification 4 my friend( dont agree much, even i luv freedom).
Counter1:
Intimation is ok. but permission is only needed, when we want to do something, which we shouldn't. Dancing in public is nothing wrong. If u ask permission for this, it means u are unnecessarily making their minds to assume dancing is bad. so they certainly say no.. even if they say yes.. it is half hearted.
Counter3:
It's not jealous or possessiveness. It's insecurity, lack of trust (on oneself & the other).
counter no:1
iam not making their minds. i knew whats there in their minds. i want my beloved one to know abt me completely. i want them to accept me & my behavior whole heartedly otherwise i'll try to accept their thinking with luv.now tell me (honestly plz),
Didnt u ever stopped doing things bcoz some1(ur loved1) doesnt like it??
Did some1's(ur loved1) behavior never hurt u??
just think 4 ur self. my parents are my luved1. luv doesnot exist only between a guy & a gal, it exist in every relation u luv(want) to.
counter no:3
v call it jealous & possesiveness. u named it insecurity.
Didnt u ever felt insecure in any of ur relationships??
i bet u do. might be the relationship is different.
Your counter is baseless. completely diverted from the topic.
Counter 1:
I don't allow others to rule over me...either they are my parents or friends or even my love. I do, what i think is correct. I change for the reason not the person.
Counter 3:
Leave abt me. Once u are ASSURED of love, why do u feel insecure?
its not baseless or diverted, the only thing is u didnt got it. i took their permission not coz i cant do without that. couldnt get the exact dialog, xplain u later.
there wont be any ruling in luv. its just understanding, understanding ur loved ones. & couldnt get y u want to distinguish parents from loved one.
To be honest, i won't inform everything to my parents. They are elders and i love them but they are not matured enough to digest/understand what i say.
I am talking abt MY PARENTS. For them, friendship with boys itself is a big thing. Ofcourse now their views are changing a bit.
I can't break my relations just because my parents don't like. I trust my friends. It takes lot of time to prove this to my parents.
So i just skip taking permissions. I will do intimate them when i should.
There is a time and place for everything.
I wait for that.
If ur parents can accept these fast changes, sure u can inform them. But don't regret if they say no.
Phani,
There is nothing like joke here. I am very serious.. Do answer me if u want.
And give comments here itself.
even my parents cant accept things fastly. afterall there is a generation gap between ourparents and us.
iam sure i'll never regret even if they say "no". might be i'll get angry for a moment. only i can understand the degree of freedom they gave to me (me also coz iam enjoying it). i never want them to regret for that.
sariga ardham kaledu.
One thing i understood from all the discussion is, u are ready to give up anything for ur parents and ur loved ones (as u say) without feeling sorry for urself.
and I amn't. I don't want to feel the emptiness that will be left over.
u c the emptiness left over, for me the room is still filled, filled with their luv.
I don't believe.
It is a BIG LIE, u lied to yourself!
y v'll i dear???
c, i already have enough freedom to do anything. And iam enjoying it to the fulliest. i'll never mind(regret is 222222222 far) to stop doing things my parents dont like. My luv is exception, & i already gave the reason 4 that. hope u dont ask abt it.
For u, freedom is something u get from ur parents. and u are very happy that u are getting it.
I was free born. I think, everyone is. I don't accept anyone to touch my freedom.
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